My husband is very infatuated with the young girl, but also seems to be pursuing a woman who he was in a relationship with when I met him. This woman is 40, mother of three teens, and someone he always said he could never fall in love with. So...why is he pursuing his older ex-girlfriend when he feels so "in love" with the 19 year-old?
He is looking for a band-aid for his pain and depression. He may think that the pain is caused by what he may have missed when younger. He may be doing other things also for this purpose, searching for freedom from responsibility. When one woman doesn't do it, he may look for others. Be patient, he will eventually face what he needs to face up to.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
