I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[gatsby11]

S

It is just darn confusing. Am I supposed to pretend he doesn't exist? Or is it ok that I ask him his opinion/help on child rearing questions?

Ok another question I have...what about taking up his offer to help me with stuff? L

Do exes do that kind of stuff for each other or it not part of the deal? You know- like is that wrong?

SO please- let me know-is it ok that I communicate with him about q's I have related to S?

AND is it okay to accept his help? Thank you!

Hey, here's my take: it all depends on how you feel. if you think you can remain detached and carefree with interacting with him that way, then go for it. If it will create more angst for you, then wait a little longer until it doesn't.

I guess my thing is if it will be free help, I'll take it! But in order for it to really be 'free' I shouldn't have to pay for it with emotional turmoil later.

Just my thoughts; see ya!