Yes, obviously the sex is going to stop. I don't want to get an STD for one thing. Other than last night, I wasn't sure if they were truly having an affair, and I guess I still don't know if it is a PA.

I have been debating about a keylogger, but for now have just been spying around the corner of our living room - I can see his computer screen but he can't see me. Seems pathetic but I guess I would feel worse with the keylogger. BTW, anyone have any good recommendations for one if I decide to go that route?

Strangely, I am really calm about this. I think it is a relief to finally know that I haven't been crazy, jealous insane girl like he has been making me out to be all this time. And as I was reading their texts I almost felt like I was spying on a teenage son or something - the texting seemed really juvenile and lacking in substance. And nothing overtly sexual, just more passionate in a teenage way and flirty.

waterbur