Said few words to W yesterday morning in the kitchen. She went back upstairs to continue getting ready for work with bathroom door shut. D was still asleep in bed when I left for work, so I only got to say goodbye to S. Didn't say anyting to W as the door was closed.
Didn't hear anything from W or anyone all day. W worked a full day yesterday and today too.
Texted D's phone that I had softball and wouldn't see her until tomorrow, be good for Mom, etc.....
Went to softball game after work and called D & S after to talk to them a bit. Didn't speak to W, just the kids.
Went out with the team after the game and had a couple beers - even though I am not supposed to. I did know that I wouldn't be seeing W since she would be in bed when I got home, so I thought it would be ok. No problems.
Got ready this am and W was in kitchen when I came down. She asked me a few questions about the game. My answers were: good, no and no. Did my morning chores and said bye to D when I left for work. Everyone else upstairs with doors closed. Had to go back in for something and S was out so I said bye to him and see ya to W who was now in kitchen.
Easy not to talk when you aren't home.
Going to see kids counselor today to talk about how/what to tell the kids. I suppose we will tell them in the next few days. I know W has been wanting to tell them. I am REALLY dreading that conversation.
EXCELLENT!
Just make sure your answers aren't SO short ("Good," "No" and "No"), and their tone isn't such, that you're coming across as being RUDE or SNARKY. What you're shooting for is BUSY -- engaging, polite, but wouldlovetochatbuthey,lookatthetimegottarunBYE!
