Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

I've been working on the "other stuff" for the past few months. Helping around the house, helping more with my son. I need to work on my temper a bit, I get caught up in these arguments and say things I shouldn't. I've gotten much better with holding my tongue.

She always says that I make it about me. Every time we talk about the R I bring up OM and that it needs to stop. How can I make it about us when there is a 3rd party involved.