When WAS discovers your posts here

[CPCajun]

SS2, When Greek found this place she was mad at first, didn't understand the techniques (thought it was a "game"), and was upset I was so "talkative." I had to let her process thru it own her own, her issues with DB were her issues. The community here helped me and I was grateful.

I just got this last night. She thinks its a game, that she is not going to play. I assured her it is no game.

And how can I legitimately distance and detach if WAS is reading everything I say?

I would use it as opportunity to let both of you to speak your mind. I wouldn't post any disrespectul, hurtful or personal attacks but maybe use the forum to start a healthy dialouge. 180 him but don't tell him - shhhssshhh. I think the fact he is reading means he is interested in you and learning more.

You can handle it.

Cheers

I would love if my W came on here. Then we both could get good advice, plus we could converse civily.