No matter the conversation, W always brings up " You did it the past 10 years." Or "Whatever happened for the past 10 years." I dont bring it up, but she almost always goes there. As for yesterday, she wore a new dress, which I complemented her on. She started talking, and before long, she went back to the 10 years hell. My only answer is ,"it is the past, which that cannot be change. It happened. We need to work on now, on day at a time." Then she says, "I dont care about now or you or your feelings."
I am trying the small chat, but its just not working. I tell you now, if I try to hang up and say I have to 'GAL', she will give me the excuse that I only want to talk when its conveinent for you. What else can I do to avoid this or respond to it differently?
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
