When WAS discovers your posts here

[Coach]

SS2, When Greek found this place she was mad at first, didn't understand the techniques (thought it was a "game"), and was upset I was so "talkative." I had to let her process thru it own her own, her issues with DB were her issues. The community here helped me and I was grateful.

But what if WAS is posting not to engage but to provoke?

That is just insecurity. It's passive aggressive. It's a desire to communicate but doing it in a unhealthy way.

And how can I legitimately distance and detach if WAS is reading everything I say?

I would use it as opportunity to let both of you to speak your mind. I wouldn't post any disrespectul, hurtful or personal attacks but maybe use the forum to start a healthy dialouge. 180 him but don't tell him - shhhssshhh. I think the fact he is reading means he is interested in you and learning more.

You can handle it.

Cheers