OK, but how do I make SURE she does not go and see this guy.

The contact between them has started up again. The exposure was supposed to kill all that.

It worked for about 2-3 weeks, and she just kept at it and at it until she sent him 2 texts last night, 2 phone messages, and a Facebook message that said she wanted to visit.

He replied and asked when.

She is DEFINITELY planning to go see him ASAP and have sex with him.

After she got the message, she sent a few texts to coworkers that I know sometimes cover for her, and it may be she is planning to go away to him as soon as this weekend.

Whenever she has time, she will most DEFINITELY take the opportunity to go see him. The contact between them has started again and I am back at square 1.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed