Mza8, thanks for the post on my thread. I need to consider all my options moving forward.
As for you, keep doing what's best for you right now. As long as you don't suspect OM in W's life, keep working at it.
Once I found out my W hooked up on her vacation, it was my turning point. To be honest, if my W said to me today she would want to try again, I would really have to think hard about it. She hasn't "shown" me anything self improvement on her end so her words would mean nothing to me.
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