hm is right... It so depends on the circumstances. My H is well, Extremely HD. Although I do not want sex every day, I mostly do to make him happy.

Don't get me wrong, its always great, but his track record of porn,etc has put a HUGE damper on everything. Sometimes I get so depressed about it, BECAUSE he is NOT sex starved why he still feels the need to look at porn, this is the troublesome part.

My H can be cruel at times and just completely selfish and yes if my mind is not in it, no I don't want to do it.


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.