Your questions are hard ones. For a long time, we are just separated, I would call H to ask about a lot of things or ask for help when S was sick, but H always responded rudely and never came over. So I stopped. If it is about S, I would say you should contact him.

With helping you move stuff, I would ask how will it make you feel. If it will make you feel bad when he leaves because you know you guys will get along, then don't do it. If you can keep it in your mind that you are just friends...then why not, but I would say keep him out of your life. Just keep him in S's.

For me, I do a lot on babycenter.com to check on things now or I call my grandma or mom because they already raised kids and know what to do...especially my grandma. smile


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