<<Oh and he threw some dumbass comment in there about why would he remarry me when he would still be legally obligated to pay me the settlement?>>

Here is one of the problems. Dan knows that you would come running back to the altar if he asked. He thinks he controls you and acts like he does.

One thing i did not get about last night. he texted you that they would have supper at 8. You got there earlier. Did you think he invited you to eat with the kids as a family? Why don't you just let him do his stuff and when he is all done, he brings the kids back? Why do you have to facilitate his existence at the drop of a hat and scurry to the farm to pickup the kids? He does not deserve you BBJ.

One last thing, the she only acts up when your here comment....you may have exagerated a tad on that one.....but who can blame you?