Good, insofar as planning goes. Not that I'm counting, but this makes the 6th Holiday since we split up, Easter being the first.
I'm in a much better place now than I was then.

I know it serves no purpose, but I still wonder if he thinks of and misses the holidays we had. Even the small ones, where he & I did something alone. He's got to be feeling this one. We always had a cookout and fireworks for all the kids. But, now he is playing Dad to her two kids.

ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011