It is almost like she is addicted to the DIVORCE. She CONSTANTLY has to be doing something to move it forward. Every single day she accomplishes something toward it.
She has made 3 calls to her lawyer lately, I assume to find out why I have not been served. She has made 8 different websearches looking for public records to see if it has been filed in the court. She constantly is sorting through her things, and keeping EVERY receipt. She is requesting more and more time away on business, to the point she will only be home 1 week in the entire month of August. Like I said, she is probably one of the most stubborn people you will EVER meet. It is really like she is absolutely obsessed with the divorce, and how to GET IT DONE FASTER.
Then add onto that she still messages the Facebook guy, and the wants to set up an online dating profile. All this after about a month of DB, 180s, and more housework and being a responsible spouse than I have ever done.
The searching for other people really tells me that she appears to be done IN HER MIND. She was THE biggest opponent of cheating before. Now it doesn't matter to her.
Has anyone ever met this level of determination and obsession about getting a divorce done?
And what do I do about her constantly still trying to contact the OM? Doesn't all the messaging make her look desparate and needy?
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
