She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[tbart01]

She tells me that she doesn't see the court date as anything other than a step in the process, it's not an end all. What frign process other than D is this the next step in?

What she fails to realize is the next step after that is her moving and me selling the house. She said once child support is set up at the court date that she's going to give me the money back so we can pay the mortgage.

If she doesn't see this as an end all, but she's not actively working on us, then why do it at all? If she plans to give the money back, then why?

I believe she expects us to go to court and continue to do what we're doing. If she's proceeding, then i have to proceed with the D. Proceeding means her moving, me moving, and the family home going for sale.

It also means she wont be seeing and hanging out with me like she has been. her continuing with the hearing is a non commitment from her, so what's the point in us doing things together?