I don't really know where to begin. It's as if had someone asked what I thought could be the worst outcome of this mess 3 years ago it would have been a description of where I am now:
Divorced Lost 50% of time with kids X married to the jackass she was seeing before separation Financially burdened Intermittant emotionally vitrolic spew from X Kids maturing to recognize and comment on the sitch Season tickets to an dysfunctional emotional freakshow
Recently X got her feelings hurt because it was DS's bday and I had custody that week. Her solution to this is to seek full custody thus preventing it from happening again. She actually asked DD which one of us she would like to live with given the choice. This upset DD who came to me about it (how I found out). So now I get to deal with the possibility of this fight while cleaning up the emotional damage of X's selfish actions. Like I said, it sucks and just keeps on sucking.
The Karma in this is both children have told me they didn't tell X but they would rather live with me than her (and new husband). I have not confronted X with the impropriety of her question to the kids or the disappointment she will face if she presses the matter.
I'm angry, I'm sad and the best part is it looks like this nightmare will never end.
"One more thing" Detective Columbo
I got off my antidepressants a couple of weeks ago. I never intended to take them for the rest of my life. All this proves ther never is a "good" time to do something like that.
Last edited by sleeper; 06/30/1010:33 AM.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
