A mistake in my post, i meant to say i'm planning my future without my H. Although it's a little hard since i'm still unemployed.

Hi NMM,

Thanks for your reply. You're a inspiration for me. I hope i'll be as strong as you are when i'm served. Just found DB in the local library, will read it soon.

Should I stop doing things for my H? I've also recently moved back after 3 mths with my parents because i wanted to try and get a job here. Should i move out again? We are renting and I can't afford the rent on my own.


M 39
H 41
T9 M6
EA found Dec 09
Separated Apr to Jun 10
Currently in house separation