My Wife is Having an Affair with Co-Worker

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I thought of something else.

My wife only had 3 month long relationships until me. I am the longest relationship she has had.

She is having an affair longer than 3 months. It is a year or more. Does that say that this A will last. I hope it does not.

Her father had an affair on her mother when she was 5 and he took her to the OW's place with him. She hated him for it. Her mother she wondered how she put up with him. Now she says she can see why her father had an affair and that her mother is too dependent on him. She thinks I am like her mother.

She has done a complete 180 in her thinking.

Her parents both mother and father are condoning her A with the OM. Go figure.

She is acting different only since my response to her petition to gain custody of the kids and say all sorts of ugly things about me.

I have to defend myself in the D proceeding, but I wonder how much further is this going to send her to the OM. Will I push her over the edge to never be able to fight for the M.

What do you guys think.

She is Japanese from Japan. First generation.

How do I compete with OM that has money, and I have no job or money at the moment. I take care of the kids all of the time.

Well...to be continued more.