Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

[Jstar]

Bd, I know this is all very difficult to go through having experienced all to well,. My nbson is now 4 months.

their father does not have much involvement in their lives my s is not bonded to his father.

try not to think about what he is not doing, but when that baby makes that entrance, you will see that little face be so shocked at how gorgeious that baby is. I say to myself when i have both my young ones with me, I HAVE ENOUGHT LOVE FOR THE BOTH OF THEM. I do, i scoop them up, kiss them to death, hug them and d2.75 loves her little brother so much, he loves her. they are deeply attached to one another.

I agree with LSG, the was may not know how to come back or make ammends for all the harm and destruction they have caused. when my h is somber, not angry and real, he admitts he's a horrible father i hear it in his voice, sadly he is letting our issues stop him from fathering these to kids. he's dug a hole and doesn't know how to get out and it is easier to do nothing then admitt you've done wrong, or need to change or look in the eyes of innocent kidos without feeling so crappy about themselves.

for whatever it's worth.