My Wife is Having an Affair with Co-Worker

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My W said from a source I will not identify that OM makes her feel like a school girl taking her for a ferris wheel ride, buying her jewelry and clothes. She told me that she could not even look at the moon with me and enjoy it. She cannot even laugh with me. So many things she says she cannot do with me so she says, but I assume she is able to those things with the OM.

Here is something that the counselor had us do:

5 ways to become my best friend

1. Being able to have fun and enjoy life with or without each other

2. Being able to support emotionally (emotional stability)

3. Being able to share anything comfortably with


4. Being able to laugh and cry together

5. Being able to understand the differences of each other

This is her list from a about 8 months ago. The affair has been about a year so far. There seems to be no sign that it is ending. She is home more, cooks more, but I know that she is TM him all the time because I check her phone and know that she TM from the bathroom when I hear a squeaky draw open. That is where she hides her cell phone.

Enough for now. I will provide more info as I am able to. I feel like I am running out of time to stop an unneccessary divorce that will tear my family apart and hurt my kids for years to come.

It is such a waste.