BD,

I don't think it is a lack of respect for you. I think he has a real lack of respect for himself. I would if I left my W 3 months pregnant. Just my perspective. He clearly is thinking about himself and what he needs while disregarding what you and the baby really need. He does not know what he really wants because he would not leave you in Limbo.

You will be a very good mother, and he will at least be involved in your child's life.

It is hard to not let the WAS dictate the life of others, but it is the reality. It is how you react that will dictate a positive outcome for you and the baby.

You are doing a great job dealing with your sitch.


ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010
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