My Wife is Having an Affair with Co-Worker

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Wife made the comment that she never agreed that I would be primary parent for the kids since I have been out of work for a number of years. She thinks I am not trying, but I look everyday.

I have put myself at a disadvantage because of my experience caring for the kids and putting her career first. I have let my experience be a problem. We made every decision together. I wish I had decided for myself what was best for the family. She said a psychic tell her it will be another 10 years before I am successful, and she cannot wait that long. This is just one of her justifications for the affair. He also has a lot of money.

He is married with 3 kids, and his W and I talk from time to time. I believe that she is going to D him. I don't know if this will help my sitch. He knows her and I communicate, but he does not talk to his W or tell her anything. Their is a mirror image of mine in the way my W treats me. It is like is showing her the ropes on how to cheat and mistreat your family.

Really terrible man. He does not talk or do anything with his youngest S. His says that he believes she was having an affair. She said it was just texting at the time and nothing more. She has ended it according to her.

I will provide more info. as time goes on.



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