Was this emotional argument done in front of the kids?
I still sense that you are responding to his bs and trying to get him to admit you are the winner of an argument. You need to learn to walk away when his batchitness starts flowing (which is often). Pick your battles carefully. Countering him when he does his blaming gets you nowhere. Well, maybe by getting you more angry will help you to realize there are better things to do than waste your anger on a dickhead like him.
I still stand by my belief that texting is one very piss poor means of communication...
