TH, i know. It is likely for the best, she needs to hit rock bottom. I believe she is with OM and who knows what is in store. I recieved one more threatning email before I finally blocked the address - it was childish and nasty in nature. It didnt even phase me.
I am beginning to think i just have to suffer a bit more, to get to some point of detachment. I guess alot of my friends are married now, and well i only have 1 good friend who is single.
I need to join some groups, get back to my hobbies, work on house now. I am still wondering though, how this is affecting her. Because I do believe her visitation is going to revoked for a period of time.
I am pretty sure my sister will get DD1 come July 15, at which point ill be forced to see WAW in court.
I know everyone is giving good advice, but damn it is hard to detach.
Ill keep at it and hope for the best. I know I cannot help WAW now and she will have to find her own way out of this mess herself.
I see DD1 on thursday and cannot wait, i know i will be ready to be custodial parent for her and this will keep me very busy as she has just now learned to walk.
I think if WAW ever did come back, itd prob be for the reason that myself and DD1 will be together. I will stand strong for her and honestly, the only person Id trust around DD1 is myself. So, if DD1 means that much to her and she is willing to get help she can come back.
If not well then I finally move on and dedicate myself to DD1.
M 36 W 29 Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months Daughter 15 months Bomb 4/22/10 Separated since 4/25/10 OM 6/10/10 Hopeful, but moving on