Mrs. A thank you! I am way more moody on this board than in real life....I mean I try to stay calm and collected IRL in front of people, no matter if I am angry or sad. So I get to vent here! And look like a crazy chick who is always on the rag! lol!
By the way, I can't help it...was thinking about Red's suggestion of having a male friend over sometime when stbxh drops off S! haha! Well I don't have ANY male friends because I purposely have avoided that due to bad previous experience (they never stay "just friends") and out of respect for my marriage-- just ME, am not saying ALL PEOPLE need to do that!
I guess I don't want to be tempted and I didn't want stbxh to be jealous. (He was the same with women UNTIL OW and I reluctantly agreed to "allow" it!)
Ok well a thought did cross my mind...and the whole purpose of this is just mild revenge/torture/self amusement....whatever. All I have to do is have a different car at my house one night when he drops off S or picks him up! I would just greet him at the door with S, and stay there, not open the door and talk in the entryway. He would definitely notice the car, and notice my behavior.
If he wanted to use the bathroom I would say "now that you live so close, can't you hold it?" NO! lol! I would say "ummmm...it isn't the best time actually..." IMPLYING he doesn't want to come in and hope he thinks it is due to the agreement we had made to not bring boyfriends/girlfriends around each other. It would just be my single mom friend, not a guy! But he wouldn't have to know that!
Last edited by newmama; 06/30/1004:44 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
