She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[steady]

You know what's really funny....since my W tried to get a second restraining order, yep, her second attempt in 16 months, I've done all my texting and emailing through my brother. Part of the temp order is that I can't text or email her unless it has to do with the kids. She lied and said I was texting/calling/emailing her all night and all day...lol.
(you can read all about it on my thread)

She even said I had conversations with her regarding where she's been even though she's didn't tell me where she was, so she is afraid I am or I have someone following her...lol. I couldn't believe I actually read those words on her affidavit. I couldn't give a sh$t what she's doing. Never mind wasting my time following her.

Anyway, I have not talked/texted/emailed/called her directly in two weeks. I don't care. I took what she wanted and gave it a push in the direction she was sending it...it's a fundamental Jiu Jitsu move.

Now she's reeling. Trying to contact me directly when I told her through my brother that I don't want her direct contact. I only want her to contact my brother who would then forward the message to me, then I would do the same.

Well now I'm getting the thank you's, her actual name written at the bottom of her emails, and tonight in one of her emails I get, I hope you and the kids have a great time on your trip. lol

I'm taking the kids to Colorado for a family reunion for a week. We're leaving on Thurs.

I don't care if I ever talk to her for the rest of my life. I just don't care at all. She's the last person I even want to see. The Friday after we get back I have the kids until 4:00. She wants to take them earlier that Friday and it's her weekend. I'd like to go to work that day because I need the hours.

So I had my brother send her an email saying she can have the kids in the afternoon and I'm going to work...but I added I wanted the switch to happen at my brother's house or in a public place. I need to protect myself. Hell, if I had it my way, I'd be doing any switches through a third person so I wouldn't have to see her at all...ever.

tbart, look at what's really going on. Look at how you're being treated. It's almost like some sort of perverse game. Let me tell you I want a D, let me sit on your lap and tell you I'm broken, let me tell you I think I need to hold this date over your head otherwise you'll change back, let me tell you I want you to give me more time - but in the meantime I'm going to press forward with the D, which is the time cutoff, but I think we may get back together later, maybe, probably, I'm not sure, but it's the best thing, compared to...uh, um, oh, compared to something I think I saw in the crystal ball I have hidden in my room, or was that in the attic? Wait we don't have an attic...what was that you asked me?

Want to ride bikes? It's your fault. Is that what this is all about? Trying to push me into reconsidering the D? I mean, come on now.... I've only changed my mind 50 times since you've been back...that's not a lot!