CW thanks for asking! I am still feeling good-not numb, not elated, just good. I ordered new comforter set and wall art for my bedroom. I filled 2 HUGE heavy duty garbage bags with clothes to give to Goodwill!

And for S' b-day next week, on his actual day, well I will ask about that. Do I acknowledge it with stbxh? I accidentally scheduled S' 12 month appt (shots! frown ) on his actual birthday! I mean it was the day and time that worked...so I was thinking of giving S an Elmo cupcake on that day (well you know- he won't eat the thing!) and doing it with stbxh????

But he has him that night. So he will take him to his place with OW. I am sure they will celebrate.

I am having an Elmo themed b-day party with my family on the 11th!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004