W and I then got into it about the 10 years as my W would out it "10 years of my life wasted." W dug deep to bring up things that I have done and said in the past.
I tried to flip it around and remain positive. W can careless that I changed. W said that I damaged her to the point that she will never feel significant to anyone and that she could never trust a person again because of me.
I said . . .
What is it they say in a court of law? STIPULATED.
The question is, what are you going to DO about all of this?
Too many WORDS, OIN. You've talked this to death, and each of you has, multiple times, stated your postion. You're at a standoff, and you need to decide what you want to DO, not what you want to SAY.
At this point, to keep repeating these conversations, is only so much cruelty to each other.
Puppy
I am not sure I follow your question. MY position "Save the marriage and work it out" W position "Wants out the marriage it cannot be worked out"
I have done so much for the benefit of our marriage and W can careless. I cannot control the way she feels only how I react. I just don't know how to react. I ignore her words and continue to work on our marriage it has got us nowhere. I take a stance and say I want to pursue happiness with or without her and it just pushes her away further but yet her presence still lingers.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
