May I jump in here and ask a question? When my emotions were still so raw from my WAW experience, I was against exposing A's. I used the example of the H addicted to porn and asked if a W should expose her H. I was curious to know what Allen's thoughts were about this.
Don't know if I'm making myself clear. But if people think porn is a form of cheating (or all the other issues that's been mentioned)......then should he be exposed like a WAS is exposed?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
