Thanks Sandi...I posted in the infidelity section asking for advice on this particular subject specifically.

The way I see it...if I just sat around and let the affair continue scott-free, then there would be absolutely no hope for us. Exposure runs a risk of making things worse yet it at least has some possibility to help crumble this relationship. It really looks like the only play I have left.

This is terrible. I feel completely crushed all over again, can't focus on anything positive...or really even get myself to my feet. I just don't know how much more of this pain I can bare. =O(

M: 29, W: 28
Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09)
Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10
Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010
Separated 5/22/10 - Present
Affair exposed 7/7/10
No children