uhhh...

The demonizes the OM/OW and idealizes the Spouse...

It takes two to tango. If you believe that the Souse did nothing wrong at all then...you are going to have some massive problems if they come back.

Do not get me wrong demonizing the OW/OM is all fine and good.


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