(USUALLY)The person the MLCer is boiking is in some respect worse off then they are. They might be good looking, but that isn't always the case. Something is (usually) broken inside, and the MLC can be with them, their new found long lost soulmate ( ) to FIX them...since they haven't yet figured out that they need to fix themselves, and woe be unto the person who suggest that to them.
Light bulb moment!
Thanks, Jack!
When OW had me arrested for sending a nasty email to her, the charges were SO ludicrous, I HAD to hire a lawyer to fight them. Didn't want that idiocy attached to my name. My lawyer said it was the easiest money he every made, poking holes in her charges.
WH was furious and said, "But you said you were guilty! Why fight it?"
And I replied, "Because her charges are BEYOND ridiculous! No attention to detail. So...clean up after her A LOT do you?"
His "deer in the headlights" expression said it all.
OW was about to be thrown out of the PhD program...until WH came along.
It all makes sense now! Thanks, Jack!
Originally Posted By: RLay1100
Compartmentalization?
Hey RLay - here's a fun way to learn about compartmentalization. Play the video in the upper right hand side:
) to FIX them...since they haven't yet figured out that they need to fix themselves, and woe be unto the person who suggest 