That's why I think Allen or Puppy could walk you through this. As Puppy would say, "You get one good shot at this" so you want to do it correctly. You are busting an affair. It may not save the M, but it will likely shoot down the secretiveness in the A.
I have confidence in them, Mike. That's why I would feel more comfortable in you seeking their advice. I'll still be here,but they are the wise ones about the A busting.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!