OK, been a while and I feel badly not looking in on other sitches.
PLEASE- I NEED HELP. I filed last week, and things are moving forward...I NEVER wanted the D.
Very much believe that W is BPD. We have had NC for several weeks...she texted me asking to come by for some of her things.
I asked that she send me an e-mail list stating everything she needed. She refused.
I asked that she bring a few things I knew she had.
She showed up at 7am, bringing nothing I asked for.
I helped her pack...we R talked...W was angry that I never sent her flowers over the last 10 months...last time I did, I caught her at OM'1's house the same night.
I asked her what she wants me to do...she said "I don't know."
We met tonight- she's still very angry...I gave her as much closure as I could...she could say nothing. And I mean nothing.
I told her I would go forward w/ D.
IS IT ACCEPTABLE for me to message her mom and some friends, including her brother- that I love W very much and although trying to avoid D at all costs, I have no choice but to file?
They all know where I stand, but is it an OK thing to do...or is it completely inappropriate?
