Cat -
I don't feel picked on AT ALL! I feel humbled and grateful for someone taking the time to help!
I thank you for taking away my feelings of doom at the interaction with H. I feel that I am ready to really avoid actual contact with him until the end of the month when we are traveling with S's team to nationals. I will limit my interactions to texts or emails. I need a break!
PS - I do the same thing with my S - but I think he actually enjoys it:)
Thank you for everything!


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time