BD I don't get why your H doesn't want a divorce if he doesn't want to commit to falling in love with you.
However he might not believe you are serious. So just file this in the back of your mind, ok?
i completely understand where you are coming from! And I do think there will come a time where I need to put my foot down and go for it! I originally was the one pressing for my WH to file... i told him over and over to get it done and if he didnt feel anything for me, it should be final (all before reading DB and DR and realizing you can fall out of love and back in and make your marriage better than ever). When he filed, his first response was you asked me to do it... I still hated him for it and didnt twist his arm! But I did send him the address of where to go file... now looking back... it was my stupidity! although it may have happened anyways!
