[quote= Piano]My WH admitted that he thought having kids might change him and us, make us happier.
So sad i asked H if this was the case with him, he says no, but how am i to believe anything he says or ever said!
This admission from WH came very late in the day. And I'm not even sure he beleive it. So you are right about being sceptical about what gets said during times like these.
This is one of those instances where we shouldnt put any value into what they say... I've learned that my WH doesnt know how to answer because he knows i remember everything and 1) if he agrees with a statement like above then he is a A$$hole or b) if he doesnt, then my next question is how could you have changed your mind overnight!
i asked H if this was the case with him, he says no, but how am i to believe anything he says or ever said!
