2 years later it's still not getting easier

[whitneypinch]

Well.....

The truth is no mater what we do, either loving or mean, nothing is really going to change their mind. As DB states we have to focus on ourselves and move forward in life.

I had been thinking about "letting my ex have it" while I am away. Really, it's not going to help the situation and it most certainly is not going to drive her back to work on our marriage. She is gone and is never going to turn back.

I think I am just going to calmly respond to her "that she has chosen to not work on our family and that she wants me to move on. Then just let me move on by no longer contacting me while I have the children".
Our separation agreement states that each parent will respect the privacy of the other when they have the kids.

Mostly I am just really sad that I don't get to be with my children everyday. As you can probably tell I miss them more than you can imagine.

Enjoy doing the upgrades to your house. Try to sit your H down and look him in the eye and tell him how important the renovations are to you. Tell him you value him and that you wish he could work with you on the renovations. See what happens.