So why do you guys keep thinking the same way? Your "logic" won't work on their "logic" yet we keep trying to put the round peg in a square hole. Once your learn why and how a WAW thinks and feels then you have the playbook. Listen to Sandi and Greek, they know of what they speak.
Coach, I really am taking all the advice to heart, believe me. No pursuing, no questions, no R talks, no calls, texts, emails, FB posts, nothing. And I'm GALing (baby steps ... it's new to me) and doing what I have to for me and the kids only.
Just have to vent occasionally here with a crowd that understands. My WAH hears none of it -- I'm letting him do his thing.
I understand the venting. Detaching helps you see the problem from a new perpspective. This in turn helped me see solutions.
Einstein: " We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.