Hang in there wii! You're a smart and funny guy and you have lots to look forward to in terms of relationships etc. Just get through today, focus on the girls for the rest of the day. You'll feel better tomorrow.

Your friend is so right...I too was a family man, for me it was always about 'my family' never about 'me'. You wanna know something ironic? STBX knew it too...one time we had someone coming over to our house (from Canada) after we'd recently gotten back together and I asked her if the guy knew about our separation and she said he did but "he too is a family man so I'm sure he's glad to see we're back together"...

Anyway, take the kids out for icecream or something to change the mood a bit. Write back to us if you want to talk...no hugs though...we're men! grin


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again