Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

CG, I'd be tempted to tell her lots of things too lol but deep down I know it's about DD and what's best for her.

Suzy, thanks and you're right that I need to figure out the boundaries but it's just so hard when it comes to kids.

Aliceeee...where ya been sweets? you can buy anything you want for those 10 points. And yes you know me well enough to say that I'd want whatever's best for DD despite how I feel about it at a personal level. I'm definitely not comfortable seeing certain people or even giving DD a false hope that STBX and I are (or will be) even remotely what we were. I know in the future things will be even worse when STBX has someoneone else. I don't know how people can stay amicable in those types of situations. This is all so damn hard but you just have to somehow carry on like robots.

As for the frequent daydreams...yeah sort of; I want to say a lot of things to her some not so good but I keep remembering your guys' words that no matter what I say it won't matter because the walls she's put up around her are impenetrable.

I don't even know who I can invite for DD's party, it's usually STBX that sent out the invitations to DD's friends through their moms etc. I suppose I could enlist her teacher's help in relaying the message to the kids parents. I don't think I can STBX who not to invite.