I have been following along quietly. You are getting great advice as we all are.
You seem to be having some trouble implementing some of the advice out of uncertainty or fear of what will or might happen. I'm right there with you.
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it's been my feeling for quite some time that the only way she's going to feel any of this is to start her new living arrangement. I haven't forced the issue because i don't want my daughters to leave there home, but the time is approaching.
I don't want this to happen to my four kids. I can't change her mind for her, though. I have to stop fighting her and giver her what she wants. Like you, mine won't leave.
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Once the date comes and I have to start to paying child support, she'll have to move. Unfortunately, I'll also have to sell the family home and find a place for me.
I think it will take the same action to get my W to leave. I may be able to keep the house, we'll just have to see.
Anyway, listen to everyone, as hard as it is, and let go. Sounds easy, I know. Again, I'm right there with you.
