Exposed finally,,limbo land

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I really do appriciate you guys.

I'm not sure where I'm to post in the near future?

1. Infidelity
2. Mid life crisis
3. Seperated

I guess at this point I need to see if I'm served, in the meantime I have appointment with L to see what ramifications her taking money out of her 401k last week would have on a D now or in the distant future(hopefully won't need )