She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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It's all very confusing on her part as we all know. Unfortunately it makes it confusing to us the LBS as well.

Steady, you're right it makes no sense that she thinks she can't come back right now because she can't give 100%. I told her the only way we'll ever know for sure whether or not it can work is to give it a try. I would hate for her to just walk away from something because she doesn't feel she can give it her all.

Robx I also agree with you. it's been my feeling for quite some time that the only way she's going to feel any of this is to start her new living arrangement. I haven't forced the issue because i don't want my daughters to leave there home, but the time is approaching.

Once the date comes and I have to start to paying child support, she'll have to move. Unfortunately, I'll also have to sell the family home and find a place for me.

It will be sad to have her come to her senses (if that ever happens), and all that we had is gone. I also won't be waiting around for her to fix herself once she follows through with the court date.

It will be very hard for me to return to her with all the resentment I will have because she kept the court date intact.