I am responsible for a significant part of that. I can't change it
We all make mistakes, but not every marriage ends just because one or both partners make mistakes.
You are right that you can't change somebody else, though. And you cannot control the choices they make, and if your H chooses to live his life without his family and give up on his M, THAT is not YOUR choice, so stop taking responsibility for HIS choice.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
