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[Ready2Change]

Friends~

You didn't really think you could get rid of me that easy did you?

I have been here, mostly reading, I may drop a line here or there, however that is about it.

Not much has changed in my sitch, however I have changed by leaps and bounds since I first came onto this board...

Wednesday, the lawyer will be officially hired.

H has hired one as well and has taken to bullying tactics in order for me to give him the D his way.

I have seen more lawyers in the past 16 months than I ever wanted to see, now I have settled on the best one I could hire.

It is bound to get uglier before it gets better so I am preparing myself for that.

I have a fantastic support system in place which includes a few DB members as well.

If you would have told me a year ago, I would be in this place, happier, healthier and looking forward to what the day brings, I would have called you a liar.

By removing myself from "limbo" I was able to finally start healing myself, I still have bad days however they are becoming further and further apart.

"Dropping the rope" was the best thing I ever did, I just wish it hadn't taken me so long...

Yet I think and see how much healthier time has made me...Mentally, physically and most important, spiritually...

I am now on the road to becoming a minister with my ultimate goal being a Pastor ~ ME!!

I have learned so much in the past year...Some beliefs have been re-enforced, some have been altered and some have dropped.

The most important lesson I have learned?

I am a beautiful woman who has much more self-worth than I gave myself credit for.

I have strength I never knew even existed...

I am no longer a doormat ~ That was the most important lesson for me to learn...

I have a mind, I have feelings and I have an opinion...

None of those are stiffled any longer.

To the newcomers, two things for you...

Time really is a wonderful healer...

Limbo is something you allow yourself to be put into...

The same person who put you into limbo is the same one that can take you out ~ You.

((((((Hugs))))))

I will be around.