Just to be clear, though, the "things I don't understand" post was me musing to myself - not actual words I've said to STBX.
I get it, you wouldn't be you if you couldn't learn something from this. Let STBX be herself and figure it out her way. That's also a boundary - you are you in all your glory and she is herself in all her glory.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
