Oh yeah, it happens. This is the thread to be on if your working towards reconciliation. It's not easy. We want to get them home and most times that's when the hardest work begins. Trust, communication, mutual respect-all have to be rebuilt no matter how bad you both want it to work. If you can make it through the hard times of waiting for them to want to come home again-your on your way. My H came home once and left again, and now we are back together but he has not moved back home. We are working things out. I have to work through alot of my fears and remember to not sabotage our R by acting out on those fears. Coming here, we all work on these issues together and learn from one another. Welcome, and I hope we can be helpful! Rachael
