Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

I pretty much owe more then the house is worth right now. In order for me to re-fy to get her name off the loan was to pay down some of the mortgage.

I told the W that selling wasn't an option. She then started talking about the R and she didn't realize we were on the reconcile path and thats why she didn't stop speaking to OM.

She manages to put a spin on things that make her the victim all the time. I still have no idea what to do now, if she wants to reconcile I can't imagine how I would ever trust her again.